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lisette69
11-12-2007, 07:30 PM
I think one of the most erotic things about a man making love to a really old woman is how he most accomadate her fraility. If she has any infirmity, he must use a pillow to prop her and make her comfortable, if she is very fat, he must accomodate that too. It is to me like a new aspect of making love, the tenderness and also the passion that would bring out in her to be so cared for. Am I wrong?
Joeblowh
11-12-2007, 09:17 PM
You don't seem to be aware that the bottom line is to get those clothes off as soon as possible and get to fucking. Sometimes you just have to take additional measures to get where you want to go. Nothing romantica about it.
Sorry Joe, but I disagree with you & agree with Lisette, if you want to succeed with elerly ladies you need to be extra gentle.
I think the problem here is that ....to Joe a fuck is a fuck is a fuck.
However some people look at the relationship as well as the sex. I personally have had a sexual relationship with a few older ladies the oldest being almost 90.
The pleasure is in the loving not just the cumming.A night spent in the spoons position because of her not being able to keep her legs wide open is still a joy and BOTH orgasms are still just as intense.
Please note I said BOTH orgasms ....you cant just be bothered with your own needs she might be old and fraile but she has her needs as well.
lisette69
11-14-2007, 01:59 AM
To Joe,
I think you are not realizing that good sex starts with the brain. In making love to a mature woman, you are missing the point if you try to get her clothes off as soon as possible. You are missing out on the good stuff an older woman can provide. If a fuck is all you want, you can visit a hooker. An older woman is so much more than a quick fuck.
Joeblowh
11-14-2007, 05:26 AM
Yama, yama, yama....................
You don't seem to be aware that the bottom line is to get those clothes off as soon as possible and get to fucking. Sometimes you just have to take additional measures to get where you want to go. Nothing romantica about it.
:evil: FOR JOE!
Haven't you learned in your life that people have romantic feelings too?
It's not only about YOU..... it's about the romantic interaction between TWO persons!
Especially the older women need a soft caring warm hearted aproach...
ripping of clothes and fuck sounds more like raping someone... it's emotionless and cold hearted to say something like that about the older ladies.
I only met older women that need a gentle toutch...
yellar
11-15-2007, 09:38 PM
Totally agreed Lisette, I think women of all ages get turned on mentally before anything physical will happen. Good lovin' always involves some tenderness and caring, and even at times some intimate snuggling, be patient and the sex will come.
lisette69
11-15-2007, 11:58 PM
I agree Yellar and Solo,
Woman do apprciate being seen as something more than just sexual. but when sex does happen for this older woman it is hot hot hot. I have a good imagination. I am more like a man in that I do like porn, mature real porn only but I like passion, that is hot. I am continually amazed at the quality of "most" of the men here. Lisette
LoveMature
11-16-2007, 09:30 AM
Brilliant post Lisette, and I couldn't agree more. Always accomodate the frailty of a lady - always make sure a lady (any lady) is comfortable. I must apologize, because I never mentioned that in one of my posts - and it was the most important thing (and the very first thing), that should've been written in my reply, because she looked very fraile.
Sometimes it's not what a person says, but what a person doesn't say that makes a difference.
Thank you Lisette, you are a doll!
LM
lisette69
11-17-2007, 01:08 AM
Thanks LM,
I don't consider myself frail by any means but I do have a leg problem and feel comfortable telling a man so by accident he doesn't do anything like grab the bad leg and pull it over my head, yikes. The man will usually be happy if one leg can go over your head lol but seriously I think a gentleman is always a turn on. aloha L
LoveMature
11-17-2007, 04:22 AM
You shouldn't have to put even one leg behind your head honey lol. Hmmmmmn your legs over a mans shoulders while he is going down on you perhaps? I'm fantasizing here - can you tell? lol
patrick47
11-27-2007, 02:18 AM
Similiar to dancing. I dance different with a lady in her 70's vs a lady in her 50's.
Sometimes I will ask the lady if her shoulders are healthy if I am going to give her turns. With sex you need to remember to start out gentle. I can not believe that post where the man explained his concept of sex is to masturbate inside a womans body. I do believe that this is the first topic here that deals with what happens after you have the lady in the mood; good topic.
Pat
stalban
11-27-2007, 11:26 AM
agree fully with lisette and the rest of you there is more to good sex than just a quick shag, esp with an older woman, my new -ish! lady friend of 72 yrs likes to be fucked, but lots of times we just cuddle together on the sofa and neck for ages and she makes the most wonderful sounds that really turn me on. (see my post in stories section = final for mole etc) sex with older ladies is so much more than joeblows idea of it!!
lisette69
11-27-2007, 09:24 PM
I love the word shag lol, it is soo British. I think what makes granny sex so hot is the idea of it all. I love to have a man in my hot who is going to be surprized at the pleasure he will get with my baby granny body. I say baby cause I have the youngest looking pussy I have seen on this site. Maybe being a Latina. hot and wet, and smooth as my last lover said ay ay ay
lisette69
11-27-2007, 09:26 PM
ps, so sex is the anticipation and making it last a long time and the whole foreplay and nasty stuff, like role play. costumes etc. I will be the nasty teacher. Hey I am the nasty teacher lol
I have to agree with you again Lisette, foreplay is as much if not more important than the final act. I have often had great sex without shooting my load.
stalban
11-29-2007, 10:13 AM
bring it on you nasty teacher :o) esp with your baby granny body :o)all the games that build up to a good "shag" as we british call it, is sometimes the best part by far. I to am fortunate to have a body with very soft smooth skin have as good a body as someone half my age, we would slip across each other like silk lisette lol :o)
lisette69
11-29-2007, 10:43 PM
How old are you Stalban? Just curious as I am not a granny who only likes younger men. I prefer medium age or older if all parts still working lol
stalban
11-30-2007, 10:37 AM
How old are you Stalban? Just curious as I am not a granny who only likes younger men. I prefer medium age or older if all parts still working lol
I am fifty six, 5ft 7" (sorry don't quite know foriegn sizes LOL) young at heart and very dirty, but I do have very soft clean skin (very lucky) if wished can post naked pic on my badongo page? keep being naughty we all love it :D
salpecam
12-04-2007, 01:23 AM
...nasty stuff, like role play. costumes etc...
I do love dressing my old ladyfriends up in costumes and role-playing! It adds a lot to an already unusual role...
lisette69
12-05-2007, 02:39 AM
i am still older than you Stalbin by one year. I am a nasty teacher but only here, not one to mix business with pleasure. Don't like little boys. Too bad you live so far away. sob. baby granny LIsette
gram69
12-05-2007, 08:55 AM
to each his own. sex to me is like cooking a gourmet dish in the kitchen. You add ingredients as you cook and the final touch is tasting all the ingredients placed on a naked dish.
stryder248
12-07-2007, 04:20 AM
You don't seem to be aware that the bottom line is to get those clothes off as soon as possible and get to fucking. Sometimes you just have to take additional measures to get where you want to go. Nothing romantica about it.
most women who meet the likes of you would probably refuse any advances you make. probably using the term "WANKER" imo
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