relationships

[lisette69]

I know this is a sex forum and I am all for it but how many of you guys would be proud to have an older gf. I have had experiences where men were ambivalent about being with a granny and just want to make late night visits which I am not into. I want a companion someone I can at least talk to as well as fuck. I am also not into one night stands so is this an impossible dream or am I relegated to an older than a granny man or my dildo? I think it is hot to see an old woman young man together. I am not talking about committment here but a friend (good good friend) I had a fiance my age but hard for 3 years and though don't want to get engaged again, miss that regular sex life, but am shy and don't go out much. This is always the grannies problem in meeting men. I am cursed, blessed with a high sex drive. advice?8)

[stalban]

hi again Lisette, depends on the fella and the woman. I am sure loads of men are quite happy to be with an older woman and not just for a quick shag, a lot of the hot stuff is is all the touchy feely stuff, personally can't keep my hands off tits, whenever and where ever. This comes from how you feel about each other, you have to gel/bond don't need to fall in love, but you've got to like each other and want the others company and body, there's some one out there but i admit it is harder when you're shy, ask all the guys here to send you a photo, might see something you like ;o) keep being sexy:o)

[Armadildo69]

Lisette, given the number of men married to women much older than them (myself included) of course it is possible to have an open relationship with a much younger man.

I wish you well in your search for a virile younger man who can satisfy your urgent desires, and is happy to be and about with you, proudly sporting you on his arm.

[mumin]

Hi Lisette... How to say I have a 62 year old girlfriend and Im proud of her... When we first met we said no sex its better to learn to know eachother first thats important: it took 3 months b4 we had sex ... An advice to you dont go with married men all they want is to come inside your panties and nothing more. try to find one descent man. How you probably say... Well do you have any one in particular you're interseted in at the moment and is he interested in you?? if so go out to places like restaurants, dancing palaces or the beach or etc etc etc... and find out if there is any attraction

[HarryJones1975]

I agree with this. I dont wan to commit to a relationship, but rather have a special friend, so we can share each others company, have a laugh and a night out as well as the in bed fun but still go our separate ways.

[lisette69]

Is this one reason some men like older women? no committment. (not that there is anything wrong with that) I don't want one now after a horrible engagement of 3 years. I would like a companion who likes sex alot. That is not easy to find

[stalban]

Perhaps one of the things about the older woman is that she doesn't want to settle down and have a family. She probably has her own family and is settled down, as are most older guys, but the part of finding a companion who like lots of sexy stuff is just as hard for guys, my long time lady friend used to be sex on legs, but going through the change she has turned into a nun! Yet her mother who is 72 is still up for it and we have some wonderful cuddles unfortunately if her family found out they would go mad, so we can,t actually go out together much. just have to keep being sexy and don't give up lisette - good luck:o)

[rope is dope]

I'm 19 dating(using the term loosely) a 51 year old grandma, so that tells you I'm into older/younger relationships.
It might've started off with just last night sex visits, but we honestly fell in love with each other. Our relationship is very difficult, because she has her family, and I have mine; although, I could care less about my family's oppinion, because we're more important than that and they should learn to accept it and be as happy as we are with each other. I wish she can say the same, but it's understandable. I mean, her 3 kids are older than me! And how easy is it explaining to her grandkids she's in love with a 19 year old?

[lisette69]

Hi everyone.
rope, your gf is beautiful. Just had to say that. I know that relationships are not easy and old or young, there are problems. I am not saying love is dead for me, but I would prefer a man being kind to be than saying he loves me. Kindness is a action, love is obsure. I want a man to respect me, but lust for me, to treat me good and be pleasured. I will say one thing. I hope I don't sound jaded, but marriage is overated. I think once you marry, you forget the reasons you wanted each other in the first place. That is one reason, finding an older women who likes her independance but also loves sex is a wondeful thing for a man. and for a woman, finding a man who is kind and hot proud of being a granny lover is a rarity. AS for committment, I had a guy who couldn't make a committement to take me to a restaurant, so a nice balance is good. I just wish I find that. So many dates and no sex grrr

[LoveMature]

I dated a lady much older than myself - We once went shopping for a ring for her, and the sales person asked if she was my mom lol.

It was a nice relationship until she gave me an altimatum - to marry her or seperate - after 2 weeks of dating - It wasn't that I just wanted sex - I wanted to be with her - but an altimatum after two weeks?

Mature women aren't just more sensual, they are more mature and much more fun to be with.

A lady must remember that all guys aren't out for a fast fuck, but that neither the lady nor the guy should be pressured into a relationship.

What if you met a guy who was married, and you wanted to have passionate sex with him?

What if those few hours gave you a different meaning of passion - and what if it was the best sex you ever had?

Any guy who just wants a quick fuck is an idiot!

There is much much, more to the passion, and love doesn't necessarily have anything to do with it.

It's about a lady and a man sharing a special moment - two people who have desire and passion for each other.

If it is a special moment between a lady and a man, and both enjoy it, and both feel better about things after, then isn't this a good thing?

Older/mature women are the wisest and they know things so much better. I don't think I am necessarily wrong on this matter, though it's quite a bit to write so I am sure I missed some things lol.


LM

[Armadildo69]

I hope I don't sound jaded, but marriage is overated. I think once you marry, you forget the reasons you wanted each other in the first place.

Marriage takes effort to keep the flames alive, and find ways to continually appreciate one another. Personally, my marriage is one of the best choices I ever made. My wife is loving, supportive, gentle, expressive and passionate. In return, I am attentive, demonstrative and adoring.

My wife has a key ring that she carries everywhere with the following quote on it:
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

[stalban]

Certainly agree with your thoughts on marriage Lisette - spot on!

[gram69]

my wife is 7 years older then I am. She does great things to me in and out of bed and we have been married for over 15 years now and she still turns me real on. Don't want another relationship but only with her.

[grannygroper]

i wouldnt have a granny girlfreind id be to ashamed

but that doest stop me fucking them whenever i get the chance

lol

[stalban]

i wouldnt have a granny girlfreind id be to ashamed

but that doest stop me fucking them whenever i get the chance

lol
Why be ashamed!? :confused:if your willing to fuck them you shouldn't be ashamed of being seen with them, you don't have to introduce her as your casual fuck, you can say she's a friend/
friend of the family.:(

[lisette69]

I am glad I brought up this subject. I just want to make a few comments. Most older women wouldn't be that stupid to ask for a committment after 2 weeks and what is a committement anyway? I just want to be respected , liked and acknowledged. But, one reason I don't date 20 somethings is that they usually are ashamed of their fetish. I also dated one 33 year old who was ashamed too. It is a turn off. I don't want to be put on a shelf and taken out to fuck. Well, only if I get desperate lol Also, Yet, I don't wanna be married. been there , done that. Mainly, I want to like the person and have stuff to talk about. like a good friend. I am a smart woman and think my brain brings a lot to the sex in a relationship. I take one day at a time and enjoy life. Everything is a relationship of some kind and some men are so scared of the word. That is why I like a man who is self assured of his liking grannies

[gram69]

Is liking or loving an older woman a fetish? Is that how it's been defined? I tend to disagree that it's fetish for younger man. I do not have a right term but will return later, hopefully with the politically correct terminology. But, certainly not "FETISH".

[lisette69]

Fetish is just a word. It is not a bad thing. Usually you think of an object involved in a fetish, like feet, or bondage etc, but liking only old women is more than a preferance as I see here but an obsession sometimes and I think fetish might be a better word. Nevertheless, I am happy for whatever it is.

[gram69]

Fetish is just a word. It is not a bad thing. Usually you think of an object involved in a fetish, like feet, or bondage etc, but liking only old women is more than a preferance as I see here but an obsession sometimes and I think fetish might be a better word. Nevertheless, I am happy for whatever it is.

Whatever makes you happy will make us all in this forum happy too. I am into woman feet fetish but the feet has to be beautiful with red nail polish on the toes nice clean feet. Now, that is fetish.

[juicylouis1954]

I am in a relationship with a lady in her 70s. People think that she is my mother, I dont care, neither does she. We both know that its never going to be a husband and wife relationship, but we are lovers and thats what counts.

[stalban]

I think some people look upon their liking, fondness, kink, fetish or whatever you want to call it as something abnormal and therefore feel the need to hide it or be ashamed of it. If like a lot of us on this site you are comfortable with who and what you are and what your tastes are then it ceases to be a problem;o) just a a thought:o)