View Full Version : Where do you guys meet the grannies?
dexelero
12-25-2007, 02:26 PM
Hi,
I just joined the forum, and after being here for about 4 hours I'm totally amazed by all the vids and pictures. Too bad I didn't discover this forum earlier.
Well to get to the point. I've been trying to establish contact with a mature lady for a long time now. I've tried numerous chat sites, forums etc. But the truth is that I've had a hard time finding any mature ladies at all, and if I do find some, they've already gotten thousands of replies.
So how do you guys do it? Any good internet site I missed maybe? tell me about your experiences, are older ladies interested in younger guys in general?
Thanks in advance!
lisette69
12-25-2007, 02:53 PM
Welcome,
I am lisette, a real granny and on this site all the time. I love men who love grannies. Where are you. I am lonely and a hot blonde Latina. pm me
HarryJones1975
12-25-2007, 05:33 PM
Good luck Dexelero. I once got chatting to a granny just from sitting on a bench doing nothing. My best chance at moment is with a granny from a general chat website which she has now left. My secret was to just chat nicely to her. Over time we chatted more, she invited me over for a drink. We looked at her photos for hours and I thought what have I done. But when I went to leave she pounced and gave me a memorable lingering kiss. I've not been back yet but when chatting I still keep it polite and chatty with just the occasional hint of what I want to do, but in a light hearted way so she cant take offence.
dexelero
12-26-2007, 02:55 AM
Good luck Dexelero. I once got chatting to a granny just from sitting on a bench doing nothing. My best chance at moment is with a granny from a general chat website which she has now left. My secret was to just chat nicely to her. Over time we chatted more, she invited me over for a drink. We looked at her photos for hours and I thought what have I done. But when I went to leave she pounced and gave me a memorable lingering kiss. I've not been back yet but when chatting I still keep it polite and chatty with just the occasional hint of what I want to do, but in a light hearted way so she cant take offence.
Chat nicely and look at her photos, I'm gonna remember that:p
But still it seems so difficult. Do you think older women in general are interested in younger guys?
HarryJones1975
12-26-2007, 04:42 PM
It is difficult. I think they are but they probably look at us then turn away thinking they wont be interested in me same as we do. Patience is another key. Theres a woman I been chatting to (admittedly shes not a granny at all but we share an interest) for 13 months, last Saturday a swinging friend told me to forget her but I kept going and tonight out of the blue almost shes badgering me to meet her in in a hotel tomrorrow which I might do if Im feeling better (I have flu!).
Key is definately patience and being bloody nice.
lisette69
12-26-2007, 06:29 PM
Nice is the key to everything in life. My motto is "kindness is more important than love because it is an action word" But don't pretend to be nice. You have to really be nice. I have had a lot of chances to bed a lot of men but usually grannys have good intuition about men and are a bit cautious. But horny as hell. believe me. And though alot of grannies like the affection that goes with the sex. I like the sex too much.
nonnalover
12-27-2007, 04:18 PM
I too have found finding older women nearly impossible, Dexelero. From being a pen pal for several months to striking up a conversation in a public place, nothing seems to make it past a smile. Not even a wink! And like Lisette offered, I think of myself as very genuine, respectful, and kind. Perhaps it's where I live -- metro Chicago -- since there's more competition? I would even be satisfied with finding an older women to email back and forth if we were on the same page!
If you find the secret, if you discover the hidden key, PLEASE do share! You would be many, many men's hero!
HarryJones1975
12-27-2007, 05:37 PM
Nice is the key to everything in life. My motto is "kindness is more important than love because it is an action word" But don't pretend to be nice. You have to really be nice. I have had a lot of chances to bed a lot of men but usually grannys have good intuition about men and are a bit cautious. But horny as hell. believe me. And though alot of grannies like the affection that goes with the sex. I like the sex too much.
thats a really good motto Lisette. I so love your posts, they are informative, honest, refreshing and helpful too.
Erik Schon2
12-27-2007, 06:57 PM
I meet my grannies at the ball rooms. It's not that I am some kind of a Casanova, but I have had the luck a few times. I dress up nicely and have a couple of drinks while listening to the music; tapping with my fingers to the rythm. It doesn't take long untill some lovely old tart picks me up for a dance.
At first I act like the shy, polite man I really am. When her breasts touches me, I can't help blushing, and the old gals absolutely loves it, when they notice their influence on me. After the first dance they always want you to kiss their cheek. (At least this is the custom in my country.) I follow her back to her seat and return back to my own.
From time to time I make sure to meet her eyes, then I smile a bit shy. I am waiting for exactly the right moment to hit on her!
And then it comes, as the band starts to play some Golden Oldie containing exactly the right rythm. You know, it's got to be slow and intimate. Then I go back to her and ask if I may have the pleasure of another dance with her. I take her hand and leads her to the dancing floor. This time we dance closer, making each part of our bodies touch the other.
This usually do the trick for me. ;)
massahmo
12-28-2007, 01:47 PM
I saw a TV article on Mexican TV about a "Home for Wayward Grannies!". I kid you not. It was an old mansion in Mexico City renovated for elderly ex??? prostitutes. They interviewed some of the still active granny ex???? prostitutes. They commented that they still have all the business they can handle, from young guys with granny fetishes. I had my own "granny adventure"in Tijuana, already told under "Real Granny Experience".
salpecam
12-31-2007, 09:06 AM
Tea dances, old people's sheltered housing, buses, bars, shops, the sea-front, there's so many places!
HarryJones1975
01-01-2008, 05:21 PM
Thanks for reminding me about the tea dances they have some in Cambridge. I tried Bingo last Sunday but found the number calling was non stop so never got a chance to actually talk to any. I smiled at loads but none smiled back. I'm knackered over the sea front, I'm landlocked here.
seaside
01-08-2008, 10:03 AM
I have a girlfriend so there is not much chance of me meeting a granny if im being realistic. I will not be trawling the ball rooms! After looking at all these pics and videos Im a walking hard on :-D god bless all you older!
So how do i meet someone? any good web sites to meet older women?
HarryJones1975
01-08-2008, 05:28 PM
I have met one older woman from one of the general put your profile up to meet people for a chat type sites, but chatted carefully toher for ages before she invited me over. I played it very much as just chatting to her friendly like and eventually she invited me over. We have only had a goodnight kiss so far but it has definite possibilities.
I'm dying to goto a tea dance but know no dance moves - will anyone teach me there or will I be sussed out and banished?
comeanin
01-10-2008, 06:20 AM
I meet most of them during my work. I am a musician, and playes every Sundays on a Tea Dance. And most of the older women knows that i am living tgether with a very old woman, so after a they have had a couple of drinks, it is easy to see who is interested,,,LOL. Women loves musicians, i dont know why, maybe they think we are romantic, and of course we take advantage of that,,,Haha
Bacopa
01-19-2008, 11:20 PM
Library reading groups. I had some success with a former WWII bomber ferry pilot 12 years ago this way. Her family came to suspect what might be going on and seperated us. She died five years ago and I don't see how her last years weren't better without the occasional sex we had
tulip1234
01-21-2008, 02:43 AM
Hi guys, I just joined this site, its got to be really hard to meet mature ladies if you are a young man...how do you even begin to approach them???? In England we have Eastbourne you should try there :O)
HarryJones1975
01-21-2008, 02:15 PM
Library reading groups. I had some success with a former WWII bomber ferry pilot 12 years ago this way. Her family came to suspect what might be going on and seperated us. She died five years ago and I don't see how her last years weren't better without the occasional sex we had
What rotten swines.
nastradimus
01-21-2008, 02:40 PM
I usually just walk up to them and start to talk with them about
the most common things
Even if you wait at a busstop you can start talking with one
Now if I take the bus I always have a nice talk with them...
it's even evolving to flirting ;)
I mean don't set your goal to sex ;) but just show intrest and be nice ;)
Just some guy
01-21-2008, 03:12 PM
Try some dating sites and just "throw a line" out to see who bites. Go slow and take your time. Some will not respond, some will respond with a "no thanks you're my sons age" but some will want to talk and see what happens. There are free sites out there, go try some. Oldest I got to respond was 55 , Im 31. Nothing has happened so far. But I've thrown lines to women up to 70 years old.
Like "Just Some Guy" mentioned,try a dating service.I don't know if I can mention Lavalife here because I'm a noobie to this site and don't know the rules yet.I signed for a limited free account last fall and was able to specify an age range and how close to my home and I got a number of responses.Unfortunately some were from other continents,countries and pros but several ladies within a few miles from me.I
'm not promoting the site,just mentioning my recent experience with online dating services.
kramtime
02-13-2008, 11:26 AM
I've found some of the best places to meet available matures are American Legion and V.F.W. halls. Most of these places serve alcohol and have lots of activities ( dances, bingo, you get the picture ) and conversation. Alot of these women are widowed or divorced and looking for company ( most are well set financially ). If your not a member is easy to get a guest membership for just a little scratch. But here's a good tip: the best time to frequent these places are mid and late afternoon, this seems to be the best time where there are more ladies than men.
Stevewal
02-16-2008, 04:14 PM
Try art galleries - easy to get into conversation about a picture...
willyhere
02-19-2008, 07:46 PM
just got back from staying in a retirement community for vacation. several lovely ladies but most with husbands!! hung out at the pool a little and some still looked pretty good. did meet a woman who worked in the area that was 57 with huge breasts. she was a doll. what was funny she couldnt find any men to date there, all too old or worn out!
Derrick59
04-22-2008, 09:49 AM
I am now thinking about some volunteer work at aretirement place in town
sexlover
04-23-2008, 06:22 PM
I will go to my grave never haveing had a granny. You are one lucky person if they contact you in any form what so ever. It's just by chance, at the right place at the right time. Judgiong by the amount of pictues we see pasted all over the web a person would think they are ready and willing but I believe most are pictures sent in by regular lovers or husbands. Not that i will ever give up hope! I am looking for that right lady when she needs someone to fill her needs. Best of luck to you! Your dream is my dream as well! Q
oliwasp
04-24-2008, 06:43 AM
To be honest, if you're just after a granny to fuck, why not try to find a nearby elderly prostitute? There are a few 60 and 70 year olds on the game and they are certainly worth a bit of cash... PM me for London info..!
mexgrfkr
04-24-2008, 07:39 AM
Bus stop! Try it :)
salpecam
04-24-2008, 12:20 PM
Yes, public transport... amazingly effective
..****n talk longer on trains!
raptor1
08-04-2008, 10:35 AM
[quote=oliwasp;114100]To be honest, if you're just after a granny to fuck, why not try to find a nearby elderly prostitute? There are a few 60 and 70 year olds on the game and they are certainly worth a bit of cash... PM me for London info..!
Does anyone know of any in Scotland???
bontyal
08-05-2008, 04:30 PM
where can i find granny in orlando i would love to do a granny thats been my passion for years
bontyal
08-05-2008, 04:30 PM
bontyal@hotmail.com
tweed65
08-06-2008, 12:38 PM
Normally in date/chat specialized sites.
Here in Italy the most attended is Meetic ....I even picked up some younger gals there, and...yes..I'm ashamed of this...:rolleyes:
:mrgreen::mrgreen:
daimon_ex
08-22-2008, 03:06 PM
Well, first of all, there are tons of places to meet older women; plenty of them have been listed here. What might be giving you so much trouble is your attitude. Nobody ever liked lecherous men.
It may have escaped your notice, but doing something like volunteering in a retirement home just to get closer to a potential fuck buddy is offensively unethical. Mature ladies are sophisticated and will certainly frown upon such a lapse in character. Anything you say or do with an older person should be genuine! Sincerity and friendship will move you much faster to intimacy (that is, if she desires it.)
On that note, I have found that being a gentleman is a nice starting point. Older women love nice men, and they especially love it when nice men still find them interesting! This does not mean telling her how sexy you think she looks; on a small percentage of women, this may work, but for most it takes trust before such a thing can be said.
Always remember that this may just turn out to be a friendship, and never expect to get sex . Trust me, as others have said, kindness and sincerity go a long way.
sipper
08-23-2008, 09:03 AM
As someone suggested..the online dating sites are where I met a few. First put in your location and age range and search. Read each ones profile. Most women lets say in their 60's or 70's will specify a man near their age BUT you'll also come across old women looking for men 30 years younger than them. Be diligent and be careful of what you wish for. You may get your wish. I know I DID
tman067
08-25-2008, 02:14 PM
I would luv to find a nice sexy and fun granny in new jersey. Can anyone help??
salpecam
08-26-2008, 04:49 AM
...volunteering in a retirement home just to get closer to a potential fuck buddy is offensively unethical.
Possibly, but it works - and some older ladies want uncomplicated sex too.
Mature ladies are sophisticated and will certainly frown upon such a lapse in character.
Unless they want to fuck a younger man without a relationship? It isn't rare.
salpecam
08-26-2008, 05:07 AM
[quote=oliwasp;114100]To be honest, if you're just after a granny to fuck, why not try to find a nearby elderly prostitute? There are a few 60 and 70 year olds on the game and they are certainly worth a bit of cash... PM me for London info..!
Does anyone know of any in Scotland???
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alosada
01-24-2009, 08:15 AM
the beach is a good place.
you can see them nearly naked, you go for a walk and see the grannies, then lay down close to the chosen one. Start talking, be polite and nice and see what´s going on. Good luck.
bluffm
02-08-2009, 05:43 PM
hey man pof is a great place to find older women I met a 67 yr old online about six months ago (I am 25) we live 4 hours from each other and I am traveling over the tomorrow afternoon when i was talking to her this eve she told me she wanted me to be forward when I get there and we both agreed to a hot kiss when i first walk in the door which i will do gladly I have hooked up with women in the 40s and early 50s before but I am about to experience a true granny it takes time but there are a ton of 50+ women on there
blackman
02-09-2009, 05:24 AM
as i have said, in my earlier postings, go voluteer at a retirement center. read some of my earlier postings " WAYS TO MEET GRANNIES ". a great way, to put your arms around a granny is, SELF-DEFENSE CLASSES. i know, some of you here, will be pissed at this. but here me out. if you are a ACTUALLY TRAINED, SELF-DEFENSE INSTUCTOR, THIS YOUR TICKET. everyone is vulnerable to being attacked. regardless of age. but, if they can teach, young women and mature women self-dense, why not grannie?. if your, a instructor, teach elderly women, on how they can defend them self. just be, more gentle with them. teach them, how they can head-butt them, by throwing their heads back, and into their nose, lips and chin. then yell FIRE TO GET AWAY. they can also, drive their nails, into their skin, where ever their is skin exposed. even, resisting, by thrashing about, if their in his arms tightly. you teach them how to back kick, kick their shins, knee caps, stomp on their shins, scratch the face, by reaching up and around, and etc. you can teach them, a course in CPR, if their friend is CHOKING. but, just volunteering, wirh little or no skills is fine. just visit a local retirement center. and see, what type of people their looking for. another website, you can go on, is www. hud. gov. this is a federal government site. on tis site, you can find a list, of emergency shelters. these emergency shelters, provide a environment, for seniors to go to. i.e. no heat or a.c. , during weather advisory. also, you will find, adult day programs, and activities, taking place, at these community centers. another place, are the retirement communities itself. wehter it be private or public. but, most retirement communities, also have thier own senior centers, just for the tenants only. try volunteering their. you might come across, a computer room. if your trained, as a computer instructor, teach them the basics. how to look up, information, that can help them in the future. or, whatever may be of interest to them. see if that, is up you guys alley. good luck. let me know, what takes place. c-ya.
vrgnm4olderf
05-26-2009, 08:23 AM
any one know how to hook up with older women in london, some one said - bus stops, they are ok but usually a rare situation araises were you can engage with an older women also the conversation is not very long. Currently not at the point for calling upon a prostitute but might contact raptor1 at a later stage though, lol. Bingo might be another good way of meeting older women though never tried it, then again not really into bingo but guess its the same as working at an old peoples home your not there as you really want to help, lol :) as others have said.
gl003
07-17-2009, 05:43 PM
I used to get a lot of grannies from yahoo until they changed everything around. What has also worked for well for me is swinger websites like adultfriendfinder.com and sexy ads.net. These are pay paysites, but if you can grab yourself a few grannies off of there its worth it. Also take a look around where you work. You'd be amazed how horny the grannies can be there. You dont have to be forward with anyone, just keep it neutral and feel them out. Eventually something will turn up.
blackman
07-17-2009, 10:26 PM
@ gl003. i agree. i found this to be soo true. but, a few here found it to be " offensive & taking advantage of ". but i don't. i am around grannies alot, & like you said, there's plenty of grannies in my line of work.
you just have to be careful & have patience as well. patience is definitely the key.
gus2405
07-20-2009, 01:06 AM
anybody from Chicago?
0carpileup
07-29-2009, 03:56 AM
Chicago here
drndare
12-13-2009, 01:10 PM
i am from Austria 27 years old. here is my yahooid drndare@yahoo.com so if there is any lady wiling to chat add me plz :)
snookers61
12-17-2009, 11:09 AM
Go to your area senior citizen center or nursing home and volinteer your time to help out with the residents.....the homes can always use free help. This gives you all kinds of access to the old gals living in the home. Many of these ladies have the ability to leave the home and go out in public. You may get lucky there.
casselrobby
12-18-2009, 12:16 PM
that sounds awsome
casselrobby
12-18-2009, 12:19 PM
where can i meet grannies in the midwest us or in costa rica
blackman
12-18-2009, 09:00 PM
@ casselrobby. just read, what " snookers61 " had, suggested and go from there.
it's just that simple.
@ casselrobby. just read, what " snookers61 " had, suggested and go from there. it's just that simple.
You never get tired giving advise blackman, do you?
That is a bad advise snookers61 - many of those ladies in nursing homes are already put under tutelage. Meeting grannies is just like meeting any other woman, with the exception that you need to be more patient and you need better conversation skills, thats all. Its ugly and pointless stalking them, trying to talk them into something on craigslist or luring around nursing homes. That is sick in my eyes.
damonprice
12-19-2009, 04:01 AM
I met an older woman when I was 25 and she was 60 at a computer school. I was married at the time, and we chatted for a few months at school. One day when we were in the elevator alone, she gave me such a passionate kiss that I was overwhelmed! A few days later we went for a drive to "chat" and she gave me a blowjob, sans the teeth! I got caught up in a whirlwind relationship with her for months, and she gave me some of the best sex I had at that time. (My wife didn't put out much after my son was born.) I didn't do anything special to attract her as I wasn't even thinking about it at the time. I just befriended her and made her feel special.
After my divorce, I had a job where another lady about 50ish, gave me the pleasure of having some "quality" time with her in my car. We fondled each other, I sucked her breasts and fingered her to orgasm. You ask what I did then? Just made her feel special at work, and treated her like a lady.
My advice to anyone who would want a relationship with any woman, young or old, treat them like no one else will, but be sincere. Any one can tell if you are faking it just to get in the sack!
Dirty8Harry
12-19-2009, 07:15 AM
Are there any older women in the Michigan/Detroit area ?
None. Nobody over 50 is allowed in the Michigan/Detroit area.
Secretchick
12-19-2009, 03:16 PM
guys
I think some of you are getting yo know me on here now and I have been chatting and helping a few of you in pm as well
do not con your way into any nursing home or self defence classes so you can be near and get the odd touch of an older lady.
I back Rue all the way with what he says in his post
people go into nursing homes because they cannot cope at home my sister and my niece are carers for the elderly many many of these people are in early stages of senile dementia taking advantage of any of those inflicted with dementia is just sick !
a lot of ladies do travel on the bus and it is a way to meet people but you have to remember they same as me where brought up in a totaly different lifestyle.
Secret
mexgrfkr
12-20-2009, 10:27 PM
WELL............ from my view there are a lot of grannies who love still to have intercourse, pose and have tons of fun with sex!! no matter age, status or religion.
Just want thing whatever you do or whoever you meet, talkin about grannies they have to be totally aware and in a full agreement with you. That is respect.
if they are aware and if they like and want to allow you anything there is no trouble.
mike1066
01-29-2010, 09:51 PM
Just be willing to help around her house and you will get what you are after
blackman
01-31-2010, 07:14 AM
@ mxgrfkr. i have been saying that all along. as long as, they are " mentally competent. " i never said take advantage of a " incompetent granny ".
@ rue. " i " never said, i hang out at a nursing home. so, don't spread rumores.
what i said was, " independent facilities " were best. they can take care of themselves, without any help. !! period !!.
i also said, " nursing homes/asisted living " is not a good idea. there way too many
people around. plus, that would be takin advantage of them. i also said, if you/ or
anyone does, " you can be arrested " .
not to mention, i have posted a list of places to go to, look for grannies at that.
lets see, hmmmm.
got it. i found my list of places to meet grannies. which i had posted over a year
ago.
recreational center : get into a fitness class for when the weather breaks & feel
good about yourself.
clubs : which caters to the much older population. particuliarly " disco nights ".
fire departments " these places have bingo nights two or three times a week.
the weekends are better. more of them. friday & sturday nights.
personal trainer : if your a personal trainer, you can help the older crowd whip
into shape. whether it be one-on-one in the privatecy of their homes,
work in the gym at a local college, or a recreational center.
grocery stores : strike up an intellectual conversation with them, see where it goes
from there.
annual arts'crafts shows : these are always advertise when the wheather breaks.
they're usually held, in the inner city at convention centers. they're advertise
in the local newspapers & t.v..
shopping malls : early birds, hit the malls to excercise. they open their doors early,
for those who want to get in a good walk about, before the stores themselves
open up to the public.
gardening expos' : just like the arts/crafts shows. women just love plants, flowers
shrubs, tree's etc. another hot spot for grannies.
local newspapers : grannies are always looking for, a good handy man, who can
either repair, restore, or do some type of odds & ends around their house.
classifieds are the places, you see them looking for help.
or, the " bulletin board " at your grocery store. they advertise their too.
maybe, you can charge them a cheap rate, for keeping their grass cut/trim for
the summer.
i have seen notices like that posted. as long as you have, your own mover & gas.
now, there you have it. is this or, are these places i mention, is " considered "
stalking ?. i don't think so. after all, they are all public. or, open to the public
i shall say. anyone says/see's differently, lets hear it.
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