blackman
04-23-2008, 04:21 AM
all woman, like a man who can cook. i'm not saying you, have to be a chef, or a former cook. but, if you can read, common instructions, from a cook book, than you are on your way. first, start out with something simple, which takes very little time, to prepare. second, cook for yourself and see whether or not, it comes out good or bad, before cooking for someone else. save yourself, the embarrassment. once your passed that, see what she likes / dislikes are. the reason, is that some people have food allergies, that can result to being, very sick or DEATH !!!!. find a granny, in your neighborhood whose divorced, singled, separated, or widowed. if you see her doing yardwork, like trying to cut tall grass, or trimming weeds and struggling, by all means interviene, and HELP. if she accepts your offer, and tries to pay you, simply tell her that, your money won't be accepted, but a nice home cook dinner, on you will. this should be the ice breaker here. if she smiles, your in. DON'T FORGET THE CANDLES, THE TABLE CLOTHS, MATCHING DINNER WARE, WINE GLASSES, AND WHAT HAVE YOU. also, read about which wines go with certain foods. start out with white candles. they, show friendship, just like flowers, on valentines day. red candles, represents love. don't send, a woman the wrong message. they are excellent, in picking up vibes. third, once you have established a relationship, start watching classical movies, eventhough you may hate them. just, your presence with her, will make her overjoyed. romantic movies at best. have the kleenex ready. woman love the emotional good - bye scenes, in movies. if she shed some tears, hold her hand. don't respond, about the scene, in the movie. just stare at her. she will eventually, look at you and smile, and squeeze your hand, for being compassionate. this, in turn may turn into a night cap, with her. but, if it doesn't just be understanding, and give her a kiss on the cheek, and call it a night. better luck next time, on all of granny lovers adventures. keep those stories comming. waiting to hear, your response on this. gotta go. c-ya:D